Weight to put on and to Lose at Once - Happening

Sponge is a porous material whose specific gravity varies depending on the substance of which is soaked. Does not change its substance but its weight can vary dramatically according to density of liquid which comes into contact with that absorbs quickly and greedy. At any time, however, is able to return to its original condition if the sponge is squeezed and is forced out of the liquid has absorbed. When we meet for the first time someone who intrigues us act like sponges trying to soak the other and what we absorb ourselves in a position to give it to someone else if that someone else is able to squeeze. Sometimes when the meeting is less fortunate than we absorb more than nourish us heavy and saturated enough to be unable to absorb anything until we find someone who can help us with a greater force to expel what we have absorbed. The happening is the human behavior towards diversity. The diversity we wonder but heightens our desire for understanding and then enrichment. If the experience is a positive path we load the weight of knowledge if we disappointed we will not see to get rid of the weight or maybe we will need outside help or someone to help us get rid of the ballast. When we have liberated us to load ballast we perhaps others of the same weight and found to be less different than you imagined.