fishes out of water

the feeling is to looking around ourself and see that is impossible to recognize the space we live in like our space;have the sensation that the social condition is too far from us and all conditions aren't good for who we are.Is like being fishes out of water and we are a lot,linked like stars in a constellation. Where we really wanna go?Doing what?We know we need to change this condition but what we really need?